break my heart for what breaks Yours

Does prayer make a difference?  Is it possible or even practical to “pray without ceasing” in such a busy, noisy world?  Prayer is more organic than most people think. Raw honesty with God, combined with a surrendered heart, invites Him into our real-life situations.  When I remind God that I’m available to pray for His world, I find I become more alert to what’s happening beyond my own walls.  Maybe I read about a terrorist attack in India or the persecution of believers in China. An Internet article about human suffering in the Sudan catches my eye, so I pray briefly.  I remain alert to further mention of the need, and find I’m reminded to pray—quietly, simply, again and again.

If you ask God to “break your heart for the things that break His,” I feel sure you will see your prayer life take flight.  That’s the subject of my book, Sometimes He Whispers, Sometimes He Roars:  Learning to Hear the Voice of God.  It’s the story of how my day-to-day living took on new vibrancy as watchful prayer made me more attuned to the human suffering along my path.

I would strike up a conversation with a young mother in the grocery store only to find she was a victim of domestic violence.  Once, while on a layover in the Phoenix airport, I sat next to a nervous young soldier named Jesse who was headed for Alaska, and then on to Afghanistan. I promised him I’d pray for him.  Now “Soldier Jesse” has a spot on my  Chubby Book prayer list. Was I seeing the world through new eyes?

Along the course of my journey, I saw amazing answers to prayer both in my own little world and God’s larger world.  My prayer journey took me to places within my own community I never knew existed.  I eventually ended up in the offices of two African Presidents for whom I had prayed.  Is your prayer life a “so what?” or a “SO THAT!”   I pray “so that” I will be available to do God’s will.  Dare to pray this dangerous prayer: “Break my heart, God, for what breaks Yours,” and watch what happens. You might discover that you become the answer to someone else’s prayer!


wait training

“What do I do when God seems silent?” The question came from a good friend and  a sincere follower of Christ. We were on a weekend retreat at the Cove (Billy Graham Training Center) in Asheville, NC.   I had just shared a message with three hundred women about learning to hear God’s voice based on  Sometimes He Whispers, Sometimes He Roars: Learning to Hear the Voice of God.

Her question hit a chord. How do we handle those times when we have prayed and prayed.  Perhaps we have even sensed God’s promise to fulfill a hope or dream. But the answer is sooo slow in coming.  I thought back to my own time of what I call “Wait Training.” In our early years of marriage, David and I had looked forward to the day we’d have children.  Imagine our dismay when hopes for a baby stretched into six months, a year, two years, and eventually four years–forty eight straight months of drugs, surgeries, tests, tests and more tests.  And still no baby.

We eventually had our daughter and two sons.  But the years of waiting proved to be a good time to seek God. Strength came as I rested in God, studied His Word, held fast to His promises…day after day. I learned what Jesus meant when He encouraged believers to “abide” in Him (John 15:5).

I also found surprising comfort as I stepped out of my own pain to serve others.  I discovered that if I would use my spiritual gifts and talents to help someone who was hurting worse that I was, a mysterious joy would spring forth. (Click here for free Spiritual Gifts inventory).

By seeking God and serving Him wholeheartedly, I learned that times of waiting can give birth to a larger purpose. Not getting what we want when we want it may be one of the best tools to sharpen our hearing of God’s voice. We may find that our seasons of waiting–those times we thought were barren– can become our most fruitful.


what makes you mad?

I confess.  Sometimes I get mad.  Maybe I get cut off in traffic or a sales person is rude to me.  When this happens, I’m wise to step over it, forgive quickly, and move on.

But I also get mad when I see injustice or cruelty.  This kind of anger doesn’t feel wrong. In fact, it feels very right–a  “holy discontent,”  as someone has called it.  This kind of anger makes me want to do something.

Right now, I am really mad about genocide in the remote Nuba Mountains of the Sudan.  These are not just nameless, faceless people thousands of miles away. I have actually been to the Nuba Mountains, a story I share in Sometimes He Whispers, Sometimes He Roars: Learning to Hear the Voice of God.  I have visited the Nuba people, shared a meal, even prayed with them. This hits hard. Continue reading


no greater love

While doing the 21-Day Experiment, I was struck by Jesus’ description of real love: “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13). Putting aside our own wants, needs, and even our very life so that another can live?   The thought is staggering.

In Sometimes He Whispers, Sometimes He Roars: Learning to Hear the Voice of God,  I describe a dangerous prayer: “Break my heart, God, for the things that break Yours.”  This prayer would eventually lead me to many places, including the Sudan.  Our team traveled to the remote Nuba Mountain Region, where we met a young man from Florida named Ryan Boyette.   Continue reading


the 21-day experiment

I invite you to join me in a 21-Day Experiment in Prayer.  Starting today, I am devoting just fifteen minutes each day to reading one chapter in the Gospel of John.  (John has exactly twenty one chapters).  I read slowly and thoughtfully, praying for God to help me understand what I am reading. Next, I ask God to impress one verse from that chapter on my mind.  I copy that “watch word” on a 3×5 card .  I  also list the people and places that are on my heart  for prayer and carry the card with me throughout the day.

Yesterday, my husband David and I  challenged our people at Forest Hill Church to join us on this 21-Day Experiment.  In addition to our daily reading in John, we will add three people who don’t know Christ to our prayer list and pray for them every day from now until Easter.  Easter Sunday marks day 21 of our experiment.

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